This is probably the most asked question that woman ask themselves every single day.
Now I’m saying woman because I’ve just been having a conversation with miss 16 who was talking about not liking her part-time job doing dishes. I asked her if she had asked to do something else? And then came all of the:
- I don’t want to be a burden
- I don’t know table numbers
- I don’t know how to do this & that
- I’ll ask to do it when I know how to do it
I responded with:
“We are only good at something after we have practiced it over & over & over again. Time and hard work is what gets us recognition by others. But you also have to believe in-yourself, without believing in yourself you won’t put your hand up to be the best at whatever you are doing in your life. If you don’t believe in yourself you might just settling for what’s safe in life. Living the life of your dreams may not be easy but it is truly rewarding”.
After the conversation I started thinking about when I hadn’t believed in myself and not followed my dreams or was just playing a small game. When all of these things were happening my soul was yearning for fulfillment and I was filled with a sadness. Now even though I’m scared I will head towards my dreams with a belief that I’m worthy of anything that my heart desires.
If am I good enough is a question that floats into your head, whether it’s frequently or not, I’d like for you to look in a mirror and say
“You are worth anything your heart desires.
You are amazing.
You are enough”.